June 4

2 Samuel 22:1-23:23, Acts 2:1-47, Psalm 122:1-9, Proverbs 16:19-20



Pray: Father God, help me to love my coworkers deeply. Remind me that we are far better together. Help me to pour myself out for them. Before we wage war help us to build relationships.

Read: 2 Samuel 23:13 finds David reflecting about an experience he had years earlier. During a harvest season David was hiding with his men at the cave of Adullam from the Philistine army. David remarked to his key men how he would love some water from the well just outside of Bethlehem. But there was a problem. The well was in Philistine territory. Nonetheless, his key guys risked their lives and broke through enemy lines to bring this coveted water to David, who refused to drink the water and poured it out as an offering to the Lord. He saw this well water as something three of his men were willing to die on his behalf to give him.

Edify: To say that David’s men loved him and would gladly give their lives for him is an understatement. But David loved them right back by refusing to drink the very water they were willing to die to provide. David understood a leadership principle that is still very true today. “Win their hearts and one day they will win you wars.”

Practice: Practice recognizing just what others have done for you. Celebrate with them just how much they mean to you. Don’t fear expression. Vocalize appreciation.

June 3

2 Samuel 20:14-21:22, Acts 1:1-26, Psalm 121:1-8, Proverbs 16:18



Pray: God, get me ready to turn things that I head up and lead over to others. Help me to perceive the times, the seasons, and the circle of life.

Read: David and his men were at war throughout Israel. But David had aged over the years. On more than one occasion he had almost been killed. His young leaders urged him “to stay home.” He was too valuable to be lost in battle. Great men of God do get older, they do get tired, and they cannot continue at the pace they kept as young men. At first, David would not step aside. But as time passed David realized that his young leaders were right. He represented stability and the blessing of God.

There comes a time where we must yield…whether it is to younger leaders or our own children. Knowing when to do so and how to do so, well, no seasoned leader finds it easy. But yielding allows those that will one day rule get some hands-on experience with wise oversight.

Edify: The Lord watches over you now and FOREVER. We are not temporary. We are eternal. We don’t have a beginning and an end. We have a beginning followed by forever. Death is just a transition. The psalmist simply shares that God watches over us now (in this life) but also forever (in the next life). The psalmist is affirming that forever is real.

Practice: Practice delegating authority. Let others step up and begin to make decisions. And after they make decisions practice sitting down with them and evaluating what they did and why.

June 2

2 Samuel 19:11-20:13, John 21:1-25, Psalm 120:1-7Proverbs 16:16-17



Pray: I am a work in progress Lord. Help me to keep my eyes on what You are doing in me while not getting caught up in what You might be doing in others. It is not wise for me to compare myself to others. You have a purpose and a plan for my life. Help me to be laser focused on that.

Read: Jesus said to Peter, “When you were young, you were able to do as you liked; you dressed yourself and went wherever you wanted to go. But when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and others will dress you and take you where you don’t want to go. Jesus said this to let Peter know by what kind of death he would glorify God.”

Historical tradition tells us that Peter was crucified like Jesus. Some report he was crucified upside down. So he indeed had others stretch out his arms and put him to death. Peter didn’t deny Christ when he, himself, was the offering. There were all kinds of works of grace and preparation of heart that took place in Peter’s life preparing him for death. Tests we fail when we are young can be passed as God gets a hold of us and grace grows in us over time.

Edify: Our past mistakes and failings need not haunt us. Peter made some huge mistakes. His enthusiasm often raced ahead of his character development. But after Pentecost a different Peter began to emerge. He began to let go and let God. Rather than confess who he was and what he would do, he began to voice who Christ was and what He would do. Folks, it isn’t about us. The sooner we make life all about Him the sooner we come into purpose and fulfillment.

Practice: Practice self-examination. Has this past week been about you or about Christ? If the pangs of self-promotion start to sweep over you, simply ask for forgiveness and tell the Lord that you want a fresh start.

June 1

2 Samuel 18:1-19:10, John 20:1-31, Psalm 119:153-176, Proverbs 16:14-15



Pray: Father, help me to think in terms of character and not in terms of talent. Help me choose friends and yoke myself to coworkers who have first and foremost…CHARACTER. Help me to discern passive aggressive behavior and correct it before it destroys.

Read: 2 Samuel 18:14 finds David’s general, Joab, shouting, “Enough of this nonsense!” King David had commanded his soldiers to spare the life of his rebellious son, Absalom, should they come across him in battle. During the battle Absalom got caught in a tree and was soon discovered by David’s men. But instead of saving him alive Joab plunged three daggers into Absalom and had his armor bearers finish him off. Joab felt he knew best. He served one of the greatest military leaders spanning the history of Israel yet, he knew better than his master. There is no doubt that Joab was a great general, but he was passive aggressive. He felt that he knew better than his master. As leaders we select leaders. And all too often the leaders are selected because of their great skills and not because of their great character.

Edify: Select your leaders with their character strengths being foundational and fundamental. As much as you might need a great worship leader or a gifted salesman be careful that their character supersedes their gifting. Poor character or even undeveloped character is very dangerous when building God’s kingdom or even your business.

Practice: Talent, gifting, and even beauty or strength impresses easily. Practice saying “no” to these charms. Dive deep. Look for character. Look for tenacity. Look for faithfulness. Look for flexibility. Look for teachability.

May 31

2 Samuel 17:1-29, John 19:23-42, Psalm 119:129-152, Proverbs 16:12-13



Pray: God, help me to be a true friend. Help me to step up and step into adversity being experienced by friends and family. Remind me that emptying myself not only refreshes others but also makes room for me to be filled by You.

Read: David and his men were fleeing Absalom in 2 Samuel 17:27. The future did not look bright. Politically, it looked like it was over. Militarily, David and his troops were weakened greatly. Who are your true friends? Who is there for you when everything is going wrong? “When David arrived at Mahaniam, he was warmly greeted by Shobi son of Nahash….They brought sleeping mats, cooking pots, serving bowls, wheat and barley, flour and roasted grain, beans, lentils, honey, butter, sheep, goats, and cheese for David and those with him. For they said, “You must be hungry and tired and thirsty after your long march through the wilderness.” None of us like adversity, but in adversity we discover our true friends.

Edify: Are you a fair weather friend? Or, are you right there being a friend when it costs you much and gets you little? Far too many marriages break up when things are not going well. Far too many churches split when things are not going well. Friends are born for adversity. Be one.

Practice: We are connected by God to our spouses, our churches, and our communities. Practice stepping up rather than stepping away when things head south. Friendships are made to be tested. Expect testing.

May 30

2 Samuel 15:23-16:23, John 18:25-19:22, Psalm 119:113-128, Proverbs 16:10-11



Pray: Give discernment to me, I need it to serve You. Help me to understand both Your ways and Your actions. May both mean far more to me than riches or power or titles or positions.

Read: 2 Samuel 15:25 finds David having to flee Jerusalem betrayed by his own son, Absalom, and he says this to Zadok the priest, “If the Lord sees fit he will bring me back to see the Ark and Tabernacle again. But if he is through with me, then let him do what seems best to him.” Here is a man who has perhaps just reached the lowest point in his life. Yet, King David still totally trusts God. Despite despair, humiliation, and bitter disappointment David puts his future in the hands of his God. No cursing, no ungratefulness, and no lament. David told Zadok, “let God be God.”

Edify: Despite losing his title “King” and despite having to flee Jerusalem David WORSHIPED! The response to great difficulty should always be worship. When life does not seem to be going our way and the news seems to be growing only worse, do you worship more or do you disappear from the church? Worship may not change your circumstances, but it always changes you.

Practice: We enter God’s gates by being thankful. We enter God’s courtyard by expressing praise. Practice thankfulness and praise when things are not going well. Voice your thankfulness and praise to others. Start your conversations with both. Be intentional.

May 29

II Samuel 14:1-15:22, John 18:1-24, Psalm 119:97-112, Proverbs 16:8-9



Pray: Father, family can be messy. And hurting people hurt people. Help me to forgive quickly and leave judgment in your hands. Remind me that blessed are the peacemakers. Help me to reconcile.

Read: Now David’s son Absalom had a beautiful sister named Tamar. And Amnon, her half brother, fell desperately in love with her. Amnon became so obsessed with Tamar that he became ill. She was a virgin, and Amnon thought he could never have her. (II Sam. 13:1-2) Amnon later raped and then rejected his half sister Tamar. Humiliated and cast off, Tamar retreated to her brother Absalom’s home and there lived in isolation.

Years passed, King David took no action against Amnon, but Absalom did. Absalom’s men killed Amnon one night while he was in a drunken stupor. Absalom then had to flee the presence of King David. “But God does not just sweep life away; instead, he devises ways to bring us back when we have been separated from him.” (II Sam. 14:15)

What a mess! Tamar is raped and rejected by Amnon who possibly could have married her if he had gone about things the right way. Her brother Absalom is consumed by hate and revenge. King David loses a son who had broken the laws of Israel. And Absalom had lost respect for his father, King David.

Does this sound like your family mess? Does it sound like my family mess? The Bible is real. We get the big, the bad, and the ugly. We get real world brokenness. But there is hope! God devises ways to bring us back together! RECONCILIATION is God’s plan. Look for it. Pray for it.

Edify: Understanding the war helps us fight the battles. The goal is reconciliation and restoration. The battles take all forms. Some might be called bizarre. Some might be deemed devastating. But don’t lose sight of the God who calls us unto Himself even when we have gone our own way.

Practice: When we say in our hearts that reconciliation is not possible or that we will never forgive and reunite, then we are lining up against God. Looking for God? Then always be looking for reconciliation.